Why It’s Always Their Fault: Understanding Wide Split Definition
“You’re the reason I feel stuck.”.
Why does it always feel like someone else is the problem?
With a Wide Split Definition, your chart has two defined areas that are far apart, requiring a full channel (or more) to connect.
In the Not-Self, that gap turns into blame:
“You’re the reason I feel stuck.”
“The world’s broken.”
You’re not here to close the gap, you’re here to get wise about what connects you.
Follow Strategy + Authority for real clarity.
Ever felt drained beyond belief, even though you’ve just finished doing what you’re supposed to enjoy?
What happens when a Projector tries to keep up with Generator energy? In this private reflection, I share a true story from Croatia, the moment my body gave out, and what that collapse revealed about energy, recognition, and recovery.
Not every emotion that moves through you is yours to claim.
An undefined Solar Plexus absorbs the emotional climate around it, amplifying what others feel until it seems personal. Yet wisdom begins the moment you pause and ask, “Is this mine?”
From that pause emerges discernment, the ability to remain present, composed, and empathetically aware without inheriting another’s storm. True clarity lives not in emotional neutrality, but in the elegance of knowing what is yours to hold and what is yours to release.
When emotion stirs within or around you, can you sense whether it is an authentic wave of your own, or an echo passing through from someone else?
The Solar Plexus Centre governs the full spectrum of human emotion: joy, fear, desire, intimacy, and truth. It is both a motor and an awareness centre, generating waves of feeling that move through time and reveal truth only when the wave has settled. For those with this centre defined, emotion becomes a consistent inner tide guiding every decision.
For those undefined, it acts as an amplifier: absorbing and magnifying what others feel.
To live correctly with the Solar Plexus is to respect its waves: to wait, to breathe, and to recognise that clarity is found not in the height of emotion, but in the calm that follows, a “neutral state”.
Life with an Undefined Spleen is never dull, it can be painful, panicked, and sometimes even laughable in hindsight. This reflection explores how the Undefined Splenic Centre clings, fears, and amplifies what isn’t yours, and how to find freedom in letting go.
The Undefined Splenic Centre can keep you holding on to what feels safe, even when it isn’t healthy. This reflection explores five signs that fear and attachment are guiding your choices instead of true alignment.
Which questions in your life are truly yours, and which ones are simply noise?
The Head Centre in Human Design holds the pressure to question, doubt, and inspire. Whether Defined or Undefined, it shapes how you handle mental pressure and how you absorb or transmit it to others. This reflection explores the dynamic between a Defined and an Undefined Head, and how to recognise which questions are truly yours to pursue.
Where in your life are you still moving faster than your own pace allows?
Living under Root pressure can feel normal, but it comes at a hidden cost. When urgency drives every decision, you’re not following your Design, you’re following conditioning. This reflection explores how to recognise when the Root is running your life, and how to step back into alignment.
The Root Center is a pressure motor, pushing us to get things done, to start, to move. But not all pressure is worth acting on. In an Undefined Root, the intensity of others can flood the system, creating a false urgency to act, fix, or start something. Left unchecked, this pressure becomes chronic tension, both physical and psychological. In this presentation, we explore how to recognise what’s truly yours, and how to return to a grounded relationship with time, movement, and stress.
When has your body spoken louder than your mind, and did you listen?
Sometimes the body says no before the mind can catch up. In this personal story, an invitation that looked appealing on the surface revealed itself as misaligned, through pain that stopped me in my tracks. This reflection explores how the body speaks when alignment is off, and the freedom that comes when you give yourself permission to listen.
The Ajna Centre isn’t your guide.
This blog explores the pressure to be certain, the difference between a Defined and an Undefined Ajna, and the mental exhaustion that comes from letting the mind lead. If you’ve ever felt stuck in overthinking, indecision, or proving you’re “right,” this is for you.
Learn how to release mental control and return to your true Authority, where clarity actually lives.
Do you need to be certain to begin?
You need to begin in alignment.
The Ajna Centre isn’t your guide.
When you stop chasing mental certainty, you’ll feel the difference in you.
Learn the Design of your mind, and how to stop living in it.
Gloria Krausse
Human Design with Gloria is a private Human Design practice for high-performing adults experiencing decision fatigue, sustained pressure, and exhaustion that rest no longer resolves.
Rather than offering generic readings or mindset advice, this work uses the mechanics of Human Design to identify where pressure is driving decisions, where energy is being drained, and how your system is designed to operate more sustainably.
Private, precise, one-to-one work for those who need clearer decisions, reduced internal strain, and a steadier way of functioning.
What has burnout taken from you: your energy, your clarity, or the sense of direction you once trusted?
Burnout drains more than energy; it unsettles clarity, weakens direction, and erodes self-worth. This is not about doing more, but about being guided back into alignment with your true design. A private, quiet space for those ready to recover and return to inner steadiness.